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15.1.12

One Size Doesn't Fit All

After Years of Debate, I have come to the conclusion that at least within African American Society, or maybe I should just say the Black Folks that I Know, that the viewpoint or opinion on what is considered to be "thick" and "fat" when it comes to women really varies depending on who you asked. I have had people I know call someone such as Sanaa Lathan "thick" and then turn around and call Serena Williams "fat". Everybody is entitled to there own opinion and preference but it usually never seems to be much logic behind these kind of statements. I personally appreciate women of varying sizes, for example Jill Scott, a "plus sized" woman, has a certain attractiveness to me because she wears her weight well and accentuates her positives, then on the other side of the scale (pun intended) Zoe Saldana is sexy as hell to be as slim as she is, she could stand to eat a few Popeyes combos but she isn't Crackhead skinny so it still looks good on her. So in conclusion, what creates our views on what is "thick" and what is "fat" and why? GOOOOOO!!!!!!

9.1.12

2012

Happy New Year!!!!! I knoooow its been a while, but your boi is back for the new year with new topics to discuss!!!!

2.7.11

Real Talk

I saw this post on a site I visit often and it made a lot of sense to me....check it...

The same broad,who's mind you respect,will be a dumb bitch for a nigga she's jocking. The same bitch who's body you respect will be a slut for any random nigga that cons them (through game and/or appearance or material things) into thinking they're the shit. The same bitch you are (financially) nice to, will take it for granted,show lack of appreciation and proceed to trick off on the dudes that do nothing for them.Its just life. Learn soft lessons and accept them or disregard and get took down by hard lessons.


..What ya'll think??

18.5.11

Yours. Mines. Ours

I was having a convo with a homie tonite.I'm single. He's married. We ended up talking about how on the financial side with marriage how the money is "joined" , "shared" or whatever. It only came up because a friend of his had to ask his wife if he could buy a LCD tv. I'm totally against that shit. I hate it when niggas gotta put the skirt on and "ask" "the boss" for permission to buy some shit with money he owned. FUCK THAT shit. I'm not about to be in a marriage that feels like a Death row contract. Opinions anyone!!??